The question is why do people stay in abusive relationships, where there is violence, devaluation and disrespect for their personality on the part of the partner? I will list several main reasons: 1. Fear and Isolation One of the most significant factors that keeps a person in an abusive relationship is fear. Abusers often use a variety of tactics to control and manipulate their victims, including emotional, physical, and financial abuse. Victims may fear retaliation, a threat to their safety, or even the safety of their children if they try to leave. Abusers may isolate the victim from friends and family, which further increases feelings of fear and helplessness.2. Financial DependencyFinancial dependence on an abusive partner can be a significant barrier to care. Many abusers control the victim by limiting their access to money, making it nearly impossible to achieve financial independence. Leaving a relationship with an abusive partner often means starting over with a clean slate, which can be a difficult and overwhelming task.3. Emotional ManipulationAbusers are often skilled emotional manipulators. They use techniques such as "gaslighting", "love bombing" and intermittent reinforcement to keep their victims emotionally dependent. As a result of this emotional rollercoaster, the victim may feel trapped, uncertain about their actions, and even responsible for the actions of the abuser. Such manipulation can create a deep emotional connection that is difficult to break.4. Low self-esteem Attackers systematically destroy the self-esteem of their victims. Over time, the victim may come to believe that they deserve to be abused or that no one will ever love them. This feeling of worthlessness can make it very difficult for the victim to leave, as they may fear that they will not find a better life outside the relationship.5. Hope for Change Many people who are abused hope that their abuser will change. They remember the good times and believe that the person they fell in love with is still out there somewhere. This hope for change can be a powerful force that keeps them in the relationship despite a history of abuse.6. Cultural and community factorsCultural and community factors may also play a significant role in why people do not leave abusive partners. In some cultures, divorce or leaving a marriage is perceived as a shame, making it even more difficult for victims to seek help and support. In addition, social norms and expectations sometimes force people to maintain the appearance of a happy relationship, even if this is far from the truth. What other reasons do you know? I will be glad to help you cope with this problem in my psychotherapy course. 1) My “Course of Overcoming Depression, anxiety and neurosis."2) The book "Self-help for neurosis - 15 techniques for fear and anxiety."3) Enrollment for an online cognitive-behavioral group on November 11.