Good day to you! Today I would like to share with you my thoughts and considerations on the topic of relationships between a man and a woman. I encounter this every day in my work with clients, in discussions on forums, in conversations with friends and acquaintances... in conversations with my mother, etc. one very popular topic today: men say that it’s difficult to be a man next to a woman, you have to practically take a woman by storm, fight with her for the opportunity to take care of her, and at some point they give up... probably she’s just not interested in me and not needed, they say so and leave. Women say that men have died out as a species, they do not take on responsibilities in the family, in relationships, the feeling that next to you is not a man, but another child. It’s sad to admit, but both are right. Historically, it so happened that a huge number of men died in the Great Patriotic War, and in connection with this, the entire burden of organizing everyday life, raising children and providing for the family fell entirely on women’s shoulders. And as a result, most women were forced to become masculine, and almost an entire generation of men raised by women became effeminate. Roles in the family have become distorted. Years have passed, democracy, equality, feminism.... everything is even more confused and it is not clear how to get out of this now. Because neither men nor women like it. Today, parents disappear all day at work, girls do not see a normal family model, they do not understand what it means to be a wife, a mother... Men, who are often absent from home, do not pass on the male model to their sons behavior in the family, in relationships. The situation is sad, but there is a way out!) Many character structures can be corrected throughout life, including with the help of psychotherapy. I would like to provide a video word on this topic to my colleague, Gestalt therapist Fedor Konorov, I hope this It will be interesting and useful for you, and I say goodbye to you. Goodbye!)) http://fedorkonorov.ru/2014/08/16/weak-man/http://fedorkonorov.ru/2014/08/16/strong-woman-wants-to-meet you/