*Divorce or save the marriage* I often hear the phrase “we don’t get divorced because we have children. When the child turns 18, then we’ll get a divorce.” In the meantime, we will/will endure. Why? The only question is, will the children say thank you for this? The child may hate the parents who did not divorce for his sake. He will feel guilty. Firstly, the child feels and sees that the parents do not love each other. Firstly, secondly, he can witness how parents swear and fight even worse. Thirdly, a model of a happy family is not built, but a model is built, “one must endure.” And if the parents get divorced, there is a possibility that each of the parents will meet their own person and will be able to create a new family each. And raise a child in a happy atmosphere, where mom is happy, dad is happy. Yes, parents do not live together, but they can also love the child, raise him and spend time with the child. Of course, there is another outcome of events and no one is safe from it . That a parent after a divorce (most often a father, but there are also mothers) simply disappear from the child’s life and do not consider it necessary to pay alimony and participate in the child’s life. This is also not the worst conclusion, because the child does not see the mother’s tears. Yes, after the divorce, my mother cried and learned to live without the burden (of her ex-husband). And she gives her attention, love to her children, it may be difficult for her to combine work and home. But my mother does not twitch her eyes. I am always for the fact that the family needs to be saved, but there are cases when there is nothing left to save. And the happiness and health of the child comes first!!! Marriage should be preserved only if you want to live with this partner. And both partners want this. And the child is happy when the mother is happy!!! Children should grow up in a healthy atmosphere. And it doesn’t matter whether there are two parents nearby or one. The main thing is that this parent is healthy!!! upbringing! And he taught life and continued to follow his child! Frustration will either destroy you or lead you to success - it all depends on what you choose. — Karen Covey.