There are people who do not believe in the acceptance and compassion of a psychologist. I found out about this on the forum. I don’t dare write about others. I will share my thoughts, conclusions, facts on this matter. I sincerely sympathize and accept clients, since I myself have experienced and felt a lot. No matter how strange it may sound, I found joyful moments, knew how to adapt, even in difficult moments. I am familiar with emotional swings, uncertainty, complete misunderstanding of myself. When they tell me that it hurts a lot without relationships and in them, there is no understanding of oneself, ambition, no acceptance of loved ones, respect, that you want to cry and scream, that many ways to solve the problem do not work - I really understand this and sympathize very much. Because I myself I live in different emotions, I have been in relationships and without them, in marriage and divorce, with children and before their birth, at home, abroad, in a dorm, I have been dependent, codependent and hysterical. Now I realize all this. And I understand perfectly well what clients are talking about. And I accept it unconditionally, because I know the value and importance of understanding. Because I loved sick people with all my heart. I believed that they could become healthy. There is an acceptance that many healthy people, far from psychology, will twist their heads. Since I myself have the ability to love deeply, I can close my eyes to oddities. When people share frightening things with me, I see how many traumas, pain, hidden benefits are behind their sweet escape from adequate reality. One correspondence changed my attitude towards sex with same-sex partners, as there can be real trauma and pain behind sexual addiction and diversity. The psyche has built such defenses that there is already a ban on feelings, anger. Only sex, only buzz... It’s like an addiction. I understand that I myself have a dependent type of behavior, but it is socially acceptable. Discipline and awareness also help me not to slide down. Therefore, psychologists are also ordinary people who are able to accept and sympathize. They also have the knowledge to help the client solve a problem, identify growth points and direct energy towards realizing the client’s desires. Agree with me?