You've probably noticed that my husband (partner) and I can talk about everything except sex. This is a difficult topic to discuss even with a loved one. In our culture, talking about sex was considered something forbidden and indecent. For most people, this conversation feels like walking through a minefield. When and where it will explode is unknown. We put off this conversation as soon as we can, and even when we start, we are afraid of offending him or saying something wrong. When we buy something from household appliances, it comes with an instruction manual. Where it is written in detail how this thing can be used, how to wash it, how to dry it. Have you provided your partner with such instructions on how to treat yourself? No? He must understand, guess for himself... But this is extremely difficult and may take a lot of time and there is a possibility that it will not work out. Are you happy with this option? Then it’s better to initiate him into the secrets of your body yourself, but for this you need to know it yourself. A feeling of shame prevents us from talking about sex. It fetters a person. Today is not the time to talk about it, postponing the conversation until better times. It’s difficult to find words, in the throat, as if there is a lump. Especially when the partner’s reaction is unknown. He may become offended, become withdrawn, withdraw into himself. One of the most unconstructive ways to talk is conversation - accusation. A man and a woman are different. Different physically, emotionally, psychologically. We look at the world, at relationships, and at everything differently. What can help in talking with a partner about sex? You need to talk about sex here and now. Phrases like: “Do you remember three months ago, you did this, but I felt like this”... They will cause nothing but aggression. Well, it’s really impossible to remember everything. A conversation about sex brings partners together, it shows the level of trust in each other. Such a conversation also gives sexual arousal. This is not just a conversation, but also flirting with a partner. Talking about sexual fantasies or desires can add some sparkle to an intimate relationship. Fantasies are just fantasies that do not require real implementation in life. On the contrary, desires must be fulfilled. Don’t be shy, talk to your partner about sex, this is the only way you will be able to avoid many mistakes and achieve harmony in your relationship. You can get a consultation by making an appointment by phone number 903 373 36 00 (Whats App )