“A woman contains enormous power,” you will get acquainted with this idea in articles on popular websites for women, in magazines and books. “A woman contains enormous power,” it was said in legends and legends. And it seems to us that we see this everywhere confirmation. Here she is - the head of a huge corporation, the head of her own business or a key department in the company. So she buys herself an apartment, a house. The most advanced car enthusiasts envy her car. Her income is growing exponentially. She goes to expensive restaurants, expensive stores. We know for sure that she will not be lost, that she will pull out and put two children on their feet, and this very job, and the house. She is smart, successful, strong, a leader! She really “will stop a peregrine falcon in its gallop...” And this “strength”, this power of hers, has a flip side: in proportion to her salary, the number of working hours grows, it’s as if a “headset” has grown to her ear. Her movements are energetic, but sharp and as if chopping. It’s as if she’s competing with men: in the office, on the road - well, who’s cooler, who’s….. And what about her personal life? “Let’s not,” you say, “and that’s understandable.” Come on. I just want to ask, paraphrasing S. Bodrov’s famous question in the film Brother: “What is strength, sister?” Well, now give up everything, and well, business, success? No. Let's look deeper. What is she doing? Constantly moving forward, reaching, achieving, climbing. In general, she does everything that a real, successful, strong,... man does. How could it be any other way? The strength of a woman lies in peace and acceptance, flexibility. To be a “cup”, to accept. “Pardon?!” - Our charming business women will say. - It's all somehow complicated. A rolling stone gathers no moss". (that's right, what kind of stone? And water? In the end, horses die from work)))) So. It is enough for a woman to be, to create an intention, to be open and accepting. Your intention will be realized if you imagine that everything is possible. At the same time, it is important to be in feminine energy, not to chase happiness, but to be happy here and now. To be in feminine energy - you can learn this, there are trainings and women's practices that allow you to awaken femininity and maintain energy within yourself (for example, women's Taoist practices) What about men? How to be here? But decide here. First option: if you are ready to completely give him your “Sun”, to be behind your husband, then give it, accept him for who he is, let him make all decisions (under your strict guidance), support him in everything! After all, he needs someone to say, “You will succeed, you are the best!” So one training participant said, why do I need a kingdom and power if I have a strong man next to me? That is, let him rule, and you will rule. The second option, you are a muscular woman - in terms of character, you are not a homebody, you need freedom, look for a little feminine man who will always be with you, will be happy to tinker with children and periodically cook amazing dishes. Matriarchy, so to speak, such relationships are also very harmonious. There is no struggle for power here. And in both cases, it is important that the man feels NEEDED. And for this, it doesn’t hurt you to allow yourself to be weak. Weak - you can show that you are sad, bad, that something may not work out, that you need support. That it is your man who can give you this support. And this is the strength of a woman, the strength is to be weak, to open up, to experience feelings and to be vulnerable. The strength of a woman is to be weak!