Who am I? Such an important question...Who am I in this relationship? Who am I in the profession? Who am I in my home? How important it is to understand this! Consider a case from family life. For example, a wife says to her husband: “I don’t see a man in you.” So what should this man do? Create a scandal or quietly eat humiliation, explaining it with the standard: “She’s tired, she has a headache...”? Or maybe just silently get up and leave forever? There is no universal recipe. The answer to this question depends on who this man sees himself in this relationship. Maybe it’s a cat that can be scolded, and then the owner’s mood will change, they’ll pet him and give him something to eat. Maybe a page who is selflessly devoted to his mistress. Maybe a son who entrusted himself to his mother’s care. Or a brutal macho. The head of the family, whose word is law for everyone. In any case, he will react based on who he sees himself in the family. But another question is very important here - who in the family he really is. If a person adequately understands his role, most likely there will not be a big scandal. Based on this role, he will react adequately. Another thing is that you can ask yourself: am I satisfied with this role?; if I’m not satisfied, then what can I change in my behavior?; and who does my wife see me as? But imagine a man who fancies himself a macho, being more of a cat in the family. Such a person fulfills his duties like a cat - that is, figuratively speaking, he lies on the sofa, loves affection and sometimes purrs. And he demands respect for himself like a macho. And here there can be a protracted scandal with mutual accusations, breaking dishes and other joys of this kind. Which will most likely end with the cat nestling comfortably on the sofa, and the owner stroking his belly or scratching him behind the ear. Until the next scandal. It is clear that this is just an example. Situations of this kind can arise anywhere, in any relationship, where people come into contact with each other. And from an adequate answer to these questions: “Who am I in this relationship?”; “Am I satisfied with this role?”; “What can I do to change my role?” ultimately depends on the quality of human life and its development.