- My friend constantly asks me for various intimate things and I obediently do it (well, except that I “break” a little), - one of my friends called.- U Does this make you uncomfortable? – I asked. “No, no discomfort.” He once said that he liked it when I was obedient and asked how I felt. And I realized that I like to be obedient, submissive. And now I think maybe I shouldn’t agree to everything he offers me. Maybe I have some kind of deviation, since I like it myself? I hung up the phone and thought: is female submissiveness a natural state of a woman in a relationship with a man or a relic of the past? This is the norm of femininity or deviation. And what is the norm in the relationship between a man and a woman? From my friend’s speeches, I heard that both she and her friend were satisfied with such a relationship. It is also important that two people talk about this with each other, and do not leave any omissions or speculations. The life of two people, a man and a woman, including intimate life, is their choice. And, if it brings them joy and everyone in the couple enjoys giving joy to their loved one, I would like to say - enjoy each other. And the opinions of others are only the personal beliefs of each individual person. Are you happy together? Then stick to it. What is the best wife in the east - submissive. Submission is a component of a woman's wisdom. And a wise woman knows when to be submissive and when not. Moderation is needed in everything, including in relationships. If a woman tries on the role of a leader, she will soon see next to her some formless, amorphous creature, and if she is constantly obedient, she will see a despot. Female submission can stimulate the development of despotism in a man. Then you need to think about it. There is a very fine line, crossing which can be fraught with consequences. If there is respect between partners - and humility, and perhaps compliance, manifests itself as a game during intimacy, there is nothing wrong with that. It’s even useful to try to change roles with your man, to offer him such a game. Men love games, and they often lack some element of play in their relationships with women. And in “love games” there are no deviations if there is a mutual agreement between the partners. After listening to the opinions of others, voicing your doubts, it is important to listen to your heart. It will always tell you whether to agree to everything a friend suggests.