“I dream of meeting a worthy man, but now male behavior has changed. Men expect actions from women, they present them themselves.” If we notice how people usually react... Let’s say you walk with a frown, don’t say hello, well, in principle, the answer will be similar. In a great mood, we don’t notice those who are particularly gloomy, but rather those who are happy and those who will respond in kind. More often it happens mutually. Here is another phrase: “There are such... pissers hovering around me, drooling, words are in the wind, no one wants to take responsibility.” Both phrases speak about the mood of the authors of the messages. In what light do they see men? - “If they are like that, why not notice them now?” - I assume this is the answer. Once you tune in to the negative, you will definitely notice it even where it may not exist. And so - “I’m all so good, and they are the last ones... Will I be lonely?” (Phrases taken from the Internet). Here is the answer... Most often we do not notice the process when, starting to condemn, we suddenly become higher than the one who has displeased us in some way. Gradually, more and more people, even “innocent” ones, fall into this category. As a result, it will really be impossible to meet a partner who will suit you. In this case, I suggest my clients work with their inner critic, where it came from... At a personal meeting, I help them change their perception, explain how to work independently and give useful life hacks and working tips tools to help yourself if necessary in different situations. An adult knows what responsibility is in business, for children, etc., there is also a very important point, to be responsible for what we think. If we screw ourselves up without noticing, then the result may be consistent with what we imagined. Keep your thoughts clean, filter, train yourself to include positive perceptions more often, and look for positives and benefits even in negative things. If you still feel: - Unbearable in a relationship - No mutual understanding - Intolerance of some people - Mistrust - Lack of true friends - Loneliness - Search or desire for approval - Powerlessness - Desire to criticize - Need for reassurance - Lack of strength to take care of yourself - Illness. ..These are signs that a person does not know how to support himself, does not trust the world and himself, does not understand his reactions, blocks the opportunity for himself to express himself, all his qualities and misses many opportunities, falls for the manipulations of the environment, criticizes, spends a lot of time in an uncomfortable state. Olga Ilyicheva