From the author: a BONUS has been released on the site, come ladies!! Having attended a sales training called “Sales are inevitable” a week ago, I am still impressed by one and only fact: relationships and business are practically the same thing. In relationships, as in business, you need to negotiate and build a field of trust and only then conclude a “deal.” I decided to give 5 proofs that sales success skills can be applied to success in relationships and vice versa. Proof 1. He has “my money”, she has “my comfort, love and warmth”. The principle by which you get what you want. Or you don’t get it. You will make a sale if, before you open your mouth, grimace or express your feelings, remember that the person in front of you has YOUR MONEY. In other words, you need to remember that those with whom you communicate can be useful to you. It's the same in relationships. When communicating with your husband, it is highly recommended to remember that he has both “your money” and “your support” and your “security”. It is important for a man not to forget that the woman next to you has “your warmth, comfort, love and care.” At the moment of awareness of such simple things, complete and adequate acceptance of the other occurs. Pride, Ego and ambition immediately disappear and relationships become more productive. Evidence 2. Ouch! Rapport! Establishing rapport, or in other words, a “field of trust”, without which they simply won’t buy anything from you, is extremely important for the initial stage of sales and building a business. All business people know what trust is and how much money revolves around it. Also, everyone knows what “sniffing goods” without rapport is and what the ending is. In relationships, everything is the same again, only called differently. No relationship will begin or continue if there is no trust between you. In a family, we give trust on credit, we take our word for it, we show love through trust, we live our whole lives, in the end together, because we trust each other and trust our safety. Evidence 3. Sir, you concern me!! We show interest in the client as a person, and not as a bag of money. In sales, in order to make a deal, you first need to get to know the client to whom you plan to sell something, collect information about him, and become interested in the person who is in front of you. Otherwise there will be no business. It’s not possible for everyone to fit the same “comb” into what they need. We then, and only then, feel interested in ourselves and see our worth. This is the most important thing - to know that we are important!! Any of our long-term connections and happy unions are built on mutual interest in each other. Where would we be without him? Time passes, topics for conversation pass, relationships take the form of habits and... and that’s it! End! It’s the end if you don’t develop and don’t see something new in each other. Without interest, the conversation will not go further. Evidence 4. “And this is what I have!” If we want to get something from the Partner or make him listen to us and do as we please, we need to go through the previous stages and only then “present” your idea. In this case, there is a high probability that they will hear you and “buy” your idea or your expectations, be it a new fur coat, new borscht, put away things or a new way of “talk to me.” Whoever sells knows what I’m talking about . And those who want to get something from their partner know that it’s not easy to go straight ahead. Proof 5. You need this! Yes, and I almost forgot! Benefits and more benefits!! Let your loved one understand that accepting your offer will be extremely useful for her/him, simply the most “tasty” dream will come true. Drawing a “picture of a future relationship” is the skill in relationships, and the same in sales. Of course, I have not described all stages of both sales and relationships, and not all business strategies, but for starters, these are MEGA effective practical skills! If the question is in your head: “how to save a family?” and “how to improve family relationships?”, then this is a practical answer for different stages of your life..