POSITIVE PROGRAMS here and now! I often tell my clients: “Remove negative programs, put only a positive attitude in the child’s brain!” Our brain is like a computer. Whatever we put in, it will work and the viruses will take a long time to load and freeze due to unnecessary programs or an abundance of information. We put in only positive things and with a minimum of “NOT” particles, and even better, don’t use them at all! Do you like the word “affirmation” " - please use it in your work with your child. You still need to learn how to implement positive programs correctly. This does not mean that we will constantly say: “You’re great, you always succeed!” Yes, a child can’t always be great. and it won’t always work out. Why praise in vain? Everything should be in place, in context and to the point. But if it didn’t work out, then instead of: “Well, how incompetent you are!” we honestly say: “Yes, it didn’t work out.” today. Yes, you did this poorly and... you didn’t finish it. We’ll practice again and everything will definitely work out. If not tomorrow, then the day after tomorrow! “I love you anyway.” a lot - and “we”, and not just one child, will work through everything, and the fact that the child is loved and the fact that certain time boundaries are designated and the fact that the parent adequately treats the situation - yes, not today, but tomorrow for sure it will work out... if you practice! Emile Coue (author of the affirmation method), a French psychologist and psychotherapist (in our opinion, a psychiatrist), gave his patients a very simple task in the clinic: “Every morning, tell yourself that you feel better and better!” Patients uttered the phrase: “Every day I feel better and better” - and recovered faster. The rules for composing these magic phrases are simple - we speak in the present tense (about the here and now) and always about ourselves. You can do it out loud, you can do it silently, but it’s better to combine both. That is, if a child knows how to speak, he talks about himself, but if the baby is still learning to speak, then a caring mother or a caring father can say this: “With Every day Vanechka is doing better and better!" And magically, homework will be completed faster and much easier. Be sure to check this on yourself and your loved ones. The technique works with absolutely everything. Alekhina Yulia Valerievna Speech therapist, neuropsychologist, art therapist Sergiev Posad89152914005