Have you noticed that some people can annoy you, while others, on the contrary, can be pleasant? They are all neutral in communication, but something “hooks” you emotionally. In this article I would like to highlight several reasons why some people infuriate us and others do not. These people have personal qualities that you have that you do not accept and reject in yourself. And when you see them in others, look as if in a mirror. There are no clear personal boundaries. When people ask incorrect questions, it causes a feeling of irritation. And the irritation is directed not at a specific person, but at yourself, for not being able to let other people know what is possible with you and what is not. That others do what you do not allow yourself to do, for various reasons: limiting beliefs, opportunities. You want something for yourself, but restrictions do not allow your desire to break through, but the person next to you does it and gets the result. In this situation, you are angry at him, but in fact this anger is directed at yourself. For example, you dream of changing jobs, but fear and anxiety do not allow you to even take a step in this direction, but your colleague decides to take this step and everything works out for her. She has joy and satisfaction, you have irritation and anger. Envy. A person lives the life of another person. He knows everything about his life, it seems to give him a sense of control over his life. Focus attention on the other person, not on your life. Burnout. This often occurs at work, when there is a strong feeling that something needs to be changed in one’s professional activities or profession. Fatigue. It’s trite that you need to rest, change the “picture”, get some sleep. This helps when emotional fatigue occurs. All these points are united by one important point - they all talk about you, and other people simply reflect your inner state. And when we realize this, take responsibility for our condition, we have the opportunity to manage it, correct it or change it. These are our expectations from other people and no one is obliged to live up to our expectations, and we should be with them. Sign up for a consultation using the link ➔ Sign up Your psychologist, Larisa Degtyar Phone - +7 (926) 782-13-57 My telegram channel https://t.me/degtyar_psy