!! !!One day there was a very amazing guy in the group. No matter what he said, no matter what he did, no matter what task, even the simplest one, he proposed, he constantly doubted. Then somehow in a conversation he let slip that in life he was too soft, which allowed others to manipulate him. And as a result, he set himself the task of training doubt in everything, training in saying “no.” And he devoted a lot of time to this. What's the end result? As a result, he developed a certain habit in himself - to doubt before he hears everything to the end, to refuse even before an offer has arrived. And this turned out to be his habit. "What to do?! “- he shouted periodically. What to do, what to do! Just as you trained this habit, let's start training another habit that will allow you to set and achieve goals. Like this. It's time to examine your habits. We will use one example to show you how this is done. And then it will be your task to explore your character. After all, it is he who shapes your destiny. So there is something to work on. We work on character, and keep “Fate” in our heads! First. Let's first agree on terms. What is a habit? How do you understand this topic? Please. Recording transcripts... Young man: Systematically repeated actions. Acquired skills. Systematically repeated actions. Girl: Reaction. Some kind of reaction. More? Girl: Under certain conditions. What you do is obligatory under certain conditions. If you are told to lie down, you lie down. Is that still the case? Girl: Body memory. The body has a certain memory. More? Girl: Repeat. Due to what we repeat, due to the environment in which we find ourselves. Does it ever happen to you that you find yourself in some environment where people behave completely differently? Girl: Yes. Somehow they say, they act completely differently. And you are directly stuck there, “How can you even say that? How can you treat people like this? " and so on. And for them this is a normal way of life. That is, it is their habit to behave this way. Well done. That is, look, our habits are acquired. Do you agree? That is, this is what you and I accumulate throughout our lives. Counting what? Counting on constant repetition. Repetition, they say, is the mother of learning. So we study, but we don’t always have luck with teachers. But now you are adults, and you have one wonderful teacher. Do you want to meet him? Then quickly go to the mirror and smile. Before you is the greatest teacher in the Universe. Sheer perfection, sheer greatness. It is you. Don't believe it yet? Well, never mind, in the process you will understand that I was right after all. Remember... continued here http://www.solnushkov.ru/?an=StatOne&uid=452 Sincerely, Andrey Ushkov. www.solnushkov.ru I will help make your dreams come true.